
Healing Isn’t Linear: How to Embrace Your Journey
- lateshamonique20
- Oct 26
- 3 min read
Updated: 16 hours ago
Healing: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth
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Healing. The word sounds simple, but anyone who’s ever felt broken knows it’s anything but linear. Some days, I feel on top of the world, like I’ve finally conquered my pain. Other days, the hurt creeps back in like it never left. I often wonder if I’m making any progress at all.
Healing isn’t a straight path, and it isn’t a race. It’s a messy, beautiful journey. It asks me to be honest with myself, gentle with my heart, and brave enough to face my own reflection.
Acknowledge Your Wounds
Before I can heal, I must recognize my pain. Pretending everything is fine only buries it deeper. Today, I take a moment to name it: disappointment, heartbreak, betrayal, or loss. Writing it down, speaking it aloud, or even turning it into a short poem can give it shape and release its grip on me.
Say this:
"I feel the weight of yesterday,
But I am here, breathing today."
Allow Yourself to Feel
Healing isn’t about being strong all the time. It’s about feeling what I feel without judgment. I can cry, journal, pray, meditate, or talk it out. These are not signs of weakness; they are proof of courage.
Remember: every tear sheds a little pain, and every word spoken lightens the heart.
Celebrate Small Victories
Even if it’s just getting out of bed when I didn’t feel like it, or saying no to someone who drains my energy, that is progress. Healing is made up of tiny steps, not kangaroo leaps. I give myself credit for each step taken.
Create Your Healing Routine
Poetry, music, journaling, prayer, meditation—whatever feeds my soul, I make it non-negotiable. For me, writing short poems or reflections is how I process and transmute it into enlightenment. I don’t have to understand it all right now. I just need to show up for myself.
Example reflection prompt:
"What am I feeling today, and how can I honor that feeling without shame?"
Be Patient With Yourself
I am not behind. I am not broken beyond repair. Healing is a personal timeline, and it bends differently for everyone. Some days, I’ll feel three steps forward and two steps back. That’s okay. I keep walking, writing, and breathing.
The Beauty of Healing
Healing isn’t linear. And that’s exactly why it’s beautiful. I am learning, growing, and slowly reclaiming my power. Each moment of vulnerability is a step toward wholeness.
💌 Take a moment today to write one small affirmation for yourself and carry it through your week. Something simple like:
"I am enough. I am healing. I am her."
Embracing Your Journey
If you resonated with this, I’d love for you to read more about embracing your journey and discovering your inner strength on my website: www.latemoni.com. Don’t forget to follow along for poetry, storytelling, and reflections that meet you exactly where you are.
Muuuaaahhhh...See you next week :)
The Importance of Community
As I navigate my healing journey, I realize the importance of community. Surrounding myself with supportive individuals can make a significant difference. Whether it’s friends, family, or fellow poetry lovers, having a network helps me feel less alone.
Finding Inspiration in Poetry
Poetry has been a lifeline for me. It allows me to express my feelings and connect with others. I often find inspiration in the works of poets who have walked similar paths. Their words resonate with my experiences, reminding me that I am not alone in my struggles.
The Role of a Life Coach
As I continue to grow, I see the value of having a life coach. They provide guidance and support, helping me set goals and stay accountable. A life coach can offer fresh perspectives and tools to navigate challenges. This partnership can be transformative, pushing me toward my best self.
Keynote Speaking as a Tool for Healing
Sharing my story through keynote speaking has also been a powerful experience. It allows me to connect with others and inspire them on their healing journeys. When I speak, I share not just my struggles but also my triumphs. This act of vulnerability creates a space for others to do the same.
The Impact of Non-Profit Work
Engaging in non-profit work has deepened my understanding of healing. Helping others allows me to channel my pain into purpose. It’s a reminder that we are all interconnected, and by lifting others, we also lift ourselves.
Conclusion: A Continuous Journey
Healing is not a destination; it’s a continuous journey. Each day brings new challenges and opportunities for growth. I embrace this journey with open arms, knowing that every step I take is a step toward a brighter future.
Let’s continue to support one another as we navigate our paths. Together, we can create a community that fosters healing, inspiration, and authentic expression.




